...I like beans myself because they make me toot! :D
Right. This is me, getting serious.
No way, man, it's not about getting someone else to touch me. I mean, having another human do it can really make it feel good, but it can also make it kind of annoying and shitty. My friend once had this sort-of boyfriend thing from a thousand miles away come visit her once and all he did was flirt with all her friends, including me. He tried to give me a back massage and it SUCKED. ROYALLY. On the other hand, sometimes I can get my dad to massage my shoulders for a minute while I'm hunched over in front of the computer, and that actually feels pretty nice, but...c'mon, man, he's my dad. That's weird. So I don't do it that often. I CAN'T do it as often as I could just reach over and tap my fists on my own shoulders or press my thumbs along my spine. (MAN does that feel good.)
I think human touch is great. It's not a supplement, it's a requirement---it feels so good because it's meant to be, not because it's an extra experience. But I don't give up on myself, either.
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Date: 2004-04-12 07:16 pm (UTC)...I like beans myself because they make me toot! :DRight. This is me, getting serious.
No way, man, it's not about getting someone else to touch me. I mean, having another human do it can really make it feel good, but it can also make it kind of annoying and shitty. My friend once had this sort-of boyfriend thing from a thousand miles away come visit her once and all he did was flirt with all her friends, including me. He tried to give me a back massage and it SUCKED. ROYALLY. On the other hand, sometimes I can get my dad to massage my shoulders for a minute while I'm hunched over in front of the computer, and that actually feels pretty nice, but...c'mon, man, he's my dad. That's weird. So I don't do it that often. I CAN'T do it as often as I could just reach over and tap my fists on my own shoulders or press my thumbs along my spine. (MAN does that feel good.)
I think human touch is great. It's not a supplement, it's a requirement---it feels so good because it's meant to be, not because it's an extra experience. But I don't give up on myself, either.